Wedding Day

The Fair Barn

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

Bethanie and Tyler first met in April 2023 in Southern Pines. They laughed to learn they were literally twenty steps away—neighbors at the same apartment complex. That tiny coincidence felt like a gentle spark of destiny.From our first messages to that doorstep hello, we felt an instant attraction. Tyler's driven, competitive charm matched Bethanie's loving, playful energy, and his funny quips kept Bethanie laughing. We both knew we wanted to learn more about each other.We quickly discovered we shared many loves—dogs, pickleball, road trips and late-night milk shake runs to Cook-Out. On our first few dates we traded stories and jokes, and laughter came easily. We realized our days together felt light and comforting, like coming home.We've had our ups and downs, yet we learned to show up for one another. When storms rose, we offered steady support, and we met each other with patience and humor. Those teachable moments only strengthened our bond—love always wins.Together we found joy in traveling and cheering at sporting events. Every trip felt like a shared heartbeat, every stadium roar a reminder that we were in this journey side by side, ready for the next one. Bethanie also has become Tyler's #1 Cheerleader. Showing up and cheering loud at his ACS Club &amp; Pinecrest School matches he coaches.Even our dogs helped tighten our bond. Walking Bo &amp; Jax and sharing quiet moments, we learned to listen and adapt. The pickleball court became a playful stage where we teased and teased and grew closer with every rally.We both found much love for each other's families who we care for deeply. Family dinners, family birthday and holiday gatherings have become such a joyful highlight.On December 27, 2025, a Pines sunset evening in the Village of Pinehurst framed our moment as Tyler dropped to one knee. He surprised Bethanie with a quiet proposal, followed by a joyous engagement party with family and friends at Pine Crest Inn.Together, we look ahead with hopeful hearts. A loving home, shared travels, and many spontaneous moments await us. I am grateful for every step we take, and I know we will keep choosing each other—today, tomorrow, and always.To our Family and Friends, you've been a huge part of our lives. You're Part of Our Next Chapter, and we cannot wait for you to Celebrate with Us. Your presence and love are so important to us as we begin this new adventure together.We are looking forward to seeing you all on October 2nd!Much Love, Bethanie &amp; Tyler

Our Pines Love Story 

Our Story

The Pinehurst Fair Barn - Wedding Venue

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Tyler's Younger Brother and Best Freind since day 1! Growing up and moving around often being in a military family was one of my favorite memories with Zach. We always had each other! Tyler does enjoy beating Zach in Ping-Pong matches any chance he gets even at age 34. 

Zach currently lives in Houston, Texas with his wife Kathy and daughter Chelsea! 

Zach Herbst

Eric has been Tyler's best friend since the West Pine Middle School Days! Go Wildcats! They grew up playing soccer together and still do today with Goonies F.C.! It is always a competition between these two so do not be surprised if there is a Pickleball match in the middle of the wedding... 

Eric lives in Southern Pines, North Carolina with his wife Kailey, son Bennett & Baby Nelly! 

Eric Parziale 

Tyler's cousin originally from Massachusetts who has transplanted to Tampa Bay, Florida with his wife Elizabeth and several pets... 

Tyler has always enjoyed hanging with Charlie growing up and still to this day enjoying sporting events together and playing some golf. Also, talking trash about the Hurricanes or the Bruins winning in Hockey. 

Charlie Mushin

Adam has become one of Tyler's really good friends over the past 10 years!  Whether it's Goonies F.C. matches, going to Carolina Hurricane Hockey games, or trying to win a Pickleball tournament, it's always a good time! 

Adam lives in Foxfire, North Carolina with his wife Jackie! 

Adam Cornell 

Matt Scott has been one of Tyler's best friends since the middle school days! Growing up playing Club Soccer and  West Pine & Pinecrest School Soccer Together. They always have a good time whether it's on the golf course or just catching up with dinner and drinks. 

Matt currently lives in Pinehurst, North Carolina.

The bets are off! With Tyler getting married this year, Matt Scott is the last of our friends' group to get married! 

Matt Scott

Matt was Tyler's first friend made once he moved to Moore County! 6th Grade Math class with Mr. Lassiter... Matt has always been family to Tyler. Growing up doing everything together, playing outside, sports and eventually winning three National Chamber Ensemble Titles with the Pinecrest Chamber in San Fransico, Chicago, and New York City! 

Matt currently lives in Sanford, North Carolina with his wife Lauren, son Cameron, and baby Andrew! 

Matt Carriker 

Wedding Party

Q + A

See Link For Hotel Block: <a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/deeplink/?ctyhocn=SOPNCHW&amp;groupCode=CHWCHA&amp;arrivaldate=2026-10-01&amp;departuredate=2026-10-04&amp;cid=OM,WW,HILTONLINK,EN,DirectLink&amp;fromId=HILTONLINKDIRECT" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/deeplink/?ctyhocn=SOPNCHW&amp;groupCode=CHWCHA&amp;arrivaldate=2026-10-01&amp;departuredate=2026-10-04&amp;cid=OM,WW,HILTONLINK,EN,DirectLink&amp;fromId=HILTONLINKDIRECT</a> Homewood Suites by Hilton Olmsted Village has a seasonal outdoor swimming pool, fitness center, a shared lounge and bar in Pinehurst. With free WiFi, this 3-star hotel offers room service and a 24-hour front desk. The property has a shuttle service, while a car rental service is also available. Selected rooms also feature a kitchen with a fridge, a dishwasher and a microwave. Continental and American breakfast options are available at the hotel. Homewood Suites by Hilton Olmsted Village has a sun terrace. There's an in-house snack bar and guests can also use the business area. Fayetteville Regional Airport is 46 miles from the property.

Homewood Suites by Hilton Olmsted Village (near Pinehurst)

Wedding Hotel Stay Information! 

For over 125 years, Pinehurst has celebrated the game of golf. Today, the courses, hotels, restaurants and country club stand ready to host all those who love the sport. Donald Ross, designer of the famed course No. 2 has hosted Men's &amp; Women's U.S. Opens and the Ryder Cup! Play Thistle Dhu Putting Course A perfect warm-up before a round, a wind-down afterward or just a fun way to let the family share in one’s love of golf, Thistle Dhu is an 18-hole putting course made to make memories on. There are 18 greens here, but no greens fees, so anyone can simply bring a putter, drop a ball and take their chances aiming for pin after pin. After Thistle Dhu enjoy lunch at The Deuce which overlooks Pinehurst No. 2 - Hole 18! Bethanie &amp; Tyler's favorite item on the menu is the Buffalo Chicken Salad

Pinehurst Resort

Bethanie &amp; Tyler recommend starting off with the Beer Cheese Pretzel Bites! A place where neighbors and friends can gather, share a beer, some great food and simply recharge their spirit. Inside the brewhouse, the brick walls remain blackened from the decades it housed massive steam boilers. Original valves and pipes have been repurposed as legs beneath tables, light fixtures above the booths or simply remain on the brick walls. Pinehurst Brewing Co. is a unique experience, made all the more so by the walls that surround it. We look forward to sharing our special home with you.

Pinehurst Brewing Company

Shop the historic district of Southern Pines on Broad Street between Connecticut and Indiana, on both&nbsp;sides of the Southern Pines Amtrack Train Station! Trees, flowers and courtyards grace the specialty shops, galleries,&nbsp;cafes, live music and night life for a lovely village atmosphere. Bethanie and Tyler recommend SoPies Pizza for a slice or the Ice Cream Parlor for a Root Beer Float! Live music in the evenings are always great at the Jefferson Inn or the Bell Tree Tavern!

Down Town Southern Pines

Things to Do

Registry

<a href="https://www.honeyfund.com/site/chamberlin-herbst-10-02-2026" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Bethanie Chamberlin &amp; Tyler Herbst's Wedding Website - Honeyfund</a>

Bethanie & Tyler

Bethanie & Tyler

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